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Every Chinese-language textbook starts out with the standard phrases for greeting people; but as an American, I always found myself unable to speak freely when it comes to seeing guests off at the door. Just a goodbye would not do, yet that was all I had ever learned from the terrible books. So I would smile and nod, bowing (鞠躬) like a Japanese and searching madly for words that would smooth over the visitor’s leaving and make them feel they would be welcome to come again. In my unease, I often hid behind the skirts of my Chinese husband’s kindness.
Then finally, listening to others, I began to pick up the phrases that eased relations and sent people off not only successfully but skillfully. Separating for the Chinese includes a lot of necessary habitual practice. Although as a foreigner, I’m not expected to observe or even know all the rules, I’ve had to learn the expressions of politeness and protest (抗议,反对) at leaving-taking.
The Chinese feel they must see a guest off to the farthest possible point—down the flight of stairs to the street below or perhaps all the way to the nearest bus stop. I’ve sometimes waited half an hour or more for my husband to return from seeing a guest off, since he’s gone to the bus top and waited for the next bus to arrive.
That’s very well, but when I’m the guest being seen off, my protests are always useless. My hostess or host, or both, insists on seeing me down the stairs and well on my way, with my repeating “Don’t trouble to see me off at the very landing.” If I try to go fast to keep them from following, they are simply out to the discomfort of having to run after me. Better to accept the inevitable (不可避免的).
Besides, that’s going against Chinese custom, because haste (doing things quickly) is to be avoided. What do you say when you part from someone? Not “farewell or Godspeed (祝福)”, but “Go slowly”. To the Chinese it means “Take care” or “Watch your step”, or some such caution, but translated literally (照字面地) it means “Go slowly.”