Directions:
Read the following text. Choose the best word (s) for each numbered blank and mark A, B, C or D.
Being a good parent is, of course, what every parent would like to be. But defining what it means to be a good parent is undoubtedly very
, particularly since children respond differently to the same style of parenting. A calm, rule-following child might respond better to a different sort of parenting than,
, a younger sibling.
, there's another sort of parent that's a bit easier to
: a patient parent. Children of every age benefit from patient parenting. Still,
every parent would like to be patient, this is no easy
. sometimes, parents get exhausted and are unable to maintain a
and composed style with their kids. I understand this.
You're only human, and sometimes your kids can
you just a little too far. And then the
happens: You lose your patience and either scream at your kids or say something that was a bit too
and does nobody any good. You wish that you could
the clock and start over. We've all been there.
, even though it's common, it's important to keep in mind that in a single moment of fatigue, you can say something to your child that you may
for a long time. This may not only do damage to your relationship with your child but also
your child's self-esteem.
If you consistently lose your
with your kids, then you are inadvertently modeling a lack of emotional control for your kids. We are all becoming increasingly aware of the
of modeling tolerance and patience for the younger generation. This is a skill that will help them all throughout life. In fact, the ability to emotionally regulate or maintain emotional control when
by stress is one of the most important of all life's skills.
Certainly it's
to maintain patience at all times with your children. A more practical goal is to try, to the best of your ability, to be as tolerant and composed as you can when faced with
situations involving your children. I can promise you this: As a result of working toward this goal, you and your children will benefit and
from stressful moments feeling better physically and emotionally.